In a relationship, both were dating or are married jealousy certainly there. In general, jealous regarded as something negative but some are saying it is a sign of love. So which is right?
Jealous may indicate an unbalanced personality but on the other hand may signify true love as revealed Psychotherapist and Founder and Director of The Valley Counseling Center in Glendale, California, USA, Alan Loy McGinnis.
When jealousy comes from an unbalanced personality could damage the marital relationship. For example, the wife hates it when her husband seemed to be familiar with his girlfriend when they were just co-workers.
"The wife wants to bind tightly to her husband for fear of being separated or wife may be dissatisfied and asked that the husband is more into it again," said McGinnis in The Romance Factor quoted on Wednesday (14/10/2015).
Jealous in certain doses can signify love. Two people who love each other do not deserve to be cold or indifferent when one seems familiar with the opposite sex.
According to McGinnis, there is no harm in asking for a greater love of the couples either the husband or wife, it is right. But not necessarily done in a way to provoke or jealousy which bore the words exploded and accused and sparked a quarrel.
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